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Jiang Xun Talks about Dream of the Red Chamber (132)
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1、 Both Bao and Dai are clearly doing each other's best, but they are also testing whether the other is really good to them. The deeper the feelings, the more I feel that my love is not enough, the more I need to prove it, and in the end, it becomes an inexplicable entanglement.
2、 In Dream of the Red Chamber, sex and emotion are two different things. Sex is a physical desire, while emotion can be an emotion that does not involve any physical relationship.
3、 True feelings "are like this, the person you truly care about the most is actually embarrassed to say it. Baoyu is very easy-going with Xiren and Qin Zhong, but different from Daiyu. This is the most difficult part for ordinary people to understand in "Dream of the Red Chamber", which means that there is a kind of concern that is even more advanced and profound than physical needs.
4、 I think 'Dream of the Red Chamber' is a bit like a Buddhist scripture. In the real world, the most painful thing that makes you feel is definitely the thing that can ultimately make you understand; The person who tormented you is precisely the one you love the most in your destiny.
5、 'Enemy' is a term full of folk wisdom, meaning that one owes someone in their previous life, so they have to repay it in this life. It also means that one party has to bear what the other party does, and there is no reason to explain it. Sometimes it refers to parent-child relationships, and sometimes it refers to marital and romantic relationships.