Cognitive resonance can reduce children's rebellion

Jiang Xun Talks about Dream of the Red Chamber (110)

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 1、 Zhao Auntie complained that Tanchun didn't make shoes for her own younger brother but for Baoyu. We also think it's not appropriate, but according to past ethics, if a concubine gives birth to a child, the child cannot be called 'mother'. You are still a servant in ethics.

2、 Tanchun later chose to marry far away. At that time, it seemed that marrying away from home was the most tragic fate for girls. But I feel that Tanchun may have his own thoughts, thinking that the biggest pain of his life is his family, and he would rather go further.

3、 Many rebellious elements in "Dream of the Red Chamber" are portrayed through different characters, with both Xiaohong and Tanchun rebelling against their own identities.

4、 Tanchun's performance has been interpreted by many as not being good for her own mother, but in fact, it's not. She just dislikes things like righteousness and vulgarity, and likes to treat others with kindness. If we look at it from a person to person perspective, 'Dream of the Red Chamber' is truly a book that subverts ethics.

5、 Zhao's mother, Aunt Zhao, had too little knowledge and lacked wisdom to make accurate judgments about things. This was the biggest pain for Tanchun, and conflicts between her and her mother often arose from it.